Saturday, September 24, 2016

How to spot trust issues



What are trust issues? The feelings that mask your true feelings because someone has abused your trust. Here are some ways to tell if yor partner has trust issues:
1. Holding Back
     This is when someone does not want to be themselves in front of you. This can cause undue stress on any relationship because it is a subtle problem that can get worse over time if not corrected.
2. Living in Fear
     This is when something always seems wrong with this person even when nothing is wrong. If your partner is afraid to do things with you that is a sign that they may not trust you enough to get completely close to you.
3. Not being honest
    If your constantly catching this person in a lie, that could be a sign of not only trust issues but also commitment issues. (cheating)
4. Phone snooping
   Privacy invasions are the number one killer of realationships. Even if nothing is found on the phone it is almost as if you have opened a door to the end of your relationship. Even if your tempted to look at your partners phone do not do it. Trust karma to settle your unhealthy thoughts.
5. Fear of commitment
   Not letting a person know that the feeling is mutual can create trust issues from the beginning. Be honest about how you feel and try to only go as far as your partner is willing to go.

And finally..

6.Supressing emotions
    If a person is trying to hide their emotions in front of you this can mean that they are not comfortable around you and they may feel as though they are not important in the relationship.  This could also mean they do do not trust you to bot make them feel worse about how they feel.

If you notice all or some of these things occuring in your relationship, make up your mind about how important that person is to you and communicate with them. Conversation is a very powerful tool because it can metaphorically start and end wars.

Good Luck!💛


1 comment:

  1. Trust issues come from a disparity of lack of human understanding and intereaction. Psychology helps with that as well as being social. You find a lot about peolle that way including tendacies, morals and values.

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