How to spot trust issues

What are trust issues? The feelings that mask your true feelings because someone has abused your trust. Here are some ways to tell if yor partner has trust issues:

1. Holding Back

     This is when someone does not want to be themselves in front of you. This can cause undue stress on any relationship because it is a subtle problem that can get worse over time if not corrected.

2. Living in Fear

     This is when something always seems wrong with this person even when nothing is wrong. If your partner is afraid to do things with you that is a sign that they may not trust you enough to get completely close to you.

3. Not being honest

    If your constantly catching this person in a lie, that could be a sign of not only trust issues but also commitment issues. (cheating)

4. Phone snooping

   Privacy invasions are the number one killer of realationships. Even if nothing is found on the phone it is almost as if you have opened a door to the end of your relationship. Even if your tempted to look at your partners phone do not do it. Trust karma to settle your unhealthy thoughts.

5. Fear of commitment

   Not letting a person know that the feeling is mutual can create trust issues from the beginning. Be honest about how you feel and try to only go as far as your partner is willing to go.

And finally..

6.Supressing emotions

    If a person is trying to hide their emotions in front of you this can mean that they are not comfortable around you and they may feel as though they are not important in the relationship.  This could also mean they do do not trust you to bot make them feel worse about how they feel.

If you notice all or some of these things occuring in your relationship, make up your mind about how important that person is to you and communicate with them. Conversation is a very powerful tool because it can metaphorically start and end wars.

Good Luck!💛

Definition of Love

I find myself struggling with relationships a lot. Maybe because I'm young and haven't experienced life to the fullest extent, but I do have a gist of what love is. Consider this: You just met someone. They're daunting, experienced, intellectually inclined, basically everything that you would want in a person. But, the most important thing is that you felt this connection. Trust and believe, It was a sentiment that you never imagined. With that being said, What is love?

Most people see love as sex, or just plain ole sacrifice. I, for one, see it as a lifelong commitment. Not just a couple of months or years but a life long journey that ends with the lost of a breath. In this day and age society lacks empathy, sympathy and commitment. We all want the new best thing. Whether its a new car, a female with a fat ass, or just material possessions. As Humans, we know thats its gonna be something or someone better than what we have. So why do we thirst after things we can't have? I don't know the answer to my own question but I do have a controlled experiment. Place 3 beautiful women in front of a man. One women with a rocking body, no too much on the bright side though. Another woman with a gorgeous smile, decent body, but she cant communicate that well. Lastly, the last women has great intuition, can bring things to fruition, and she's a great communicater.

Which would you choose?  Communication is the key to life and happiness if you exact me. I find a woman that can keep a conversation solely and ultimately attractive but thats only because I love to talk. Love is all about how you can reach your spouse on a deeper level. Its more than just sex, having fun, and buying things. Can you really get that person to fall in love with your mind. This is what i think love means. Deeper Connections equals different Affections.

Much Love,

The Virgo King